Several years ago, I had begun selling my belongings online to make some extra cash. I had came across this great website which proposed meeting the buyer in a public place. Aside from the money I was making, I had noticed how many great people I was also meeting.
Eventually, this had been were the idea of, Dating Without Dating, had wooed my mind. I had realized how much fun— interesting it had been meeting all these people. I had had an epiphany that my encounters with women really felt like a first date.
Although the meetings had been short, it had felt like those speed dating events I had seen on TV. In just a few seconds, I could have told it instantly who clicked— who did not whether the person bought my product or not.
Since my objective had been to sell merchandise, I had no stress of wanting to be dating material.
After a few interesting encounters, I realized that something else was being advertised— it was my date-ability. After awhile, I had realized that this ordinary situation had great dating potential.
After a few interesting encounters, I realized that something else was being advertised— it was my date-ability. After awhile, I had realized that this ordinary situation had great dating potential.
In other words, despite the setting or situation which you will choose, the plan is to make it as natural as possible— instead be in the moment. Being in the moment means to focus on enjoying yourself while you meet a person instead of thinking about what can go wrong.
When it comes to perfection, the lesson that I have really learned is that only mistakes can lead to mastery. I call this the perfect mistake because it is only through mistakes that you get to learn things that you would have otherwise missed.
As an illustration, how many times have you heard that many actors prefer to get into the role instead of acting it out? Certain therapists have shared that they have accomplished some of their best work outside of the office in a natural setting.
When it comes to perfection, the lesson that I have really learned is that only mistakes can lead to mastery. I call this the perfect mistake because it is only through mistakes that you get to learn things that you would have otherwise missed.
As an illustration, how many times have you heard that many actors prefer to get into the role instead of acting it out? Certain therapists have shared that they have accomplished some of their best work outside of the office in a natural setting.
Accordingly, being natural is very important, for being natural helps your brain to be authentic— that helps to interact better with people. For instance, joining a class or a volunteer group is a great natural way to meet people authentically. However, do not do it to find a date; instead, do it to meet people.
Ultimately, the plan is to meet people without searching. Some people will like you and others won't— and that is just the way the game is played. There is nothing you can do about that because only the arrows of chemistry matches the hearts of the Valentines with each other.
As long as you remain active in your community, you will keep meeting interesting people. Put yourself out there by doing other activities outside your comfort zone— there is no doubt that you will be noticed.
As long as you remain active in your community, you will keep meeting interesting people. Put yourself out there by doing other activities outside your comfort zone— there is no doubt that you will be noticed.
(P.S: Sometimes we close the doors of opportunity when our eyes connect more often with the Cell phones instead of the next great person we were supposed to meet.)
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